For anyone who knows the “Myers” side of our family, you know that we two Myers girls came by competitive spirit honestly growing up with five brothers. Not to mention, my dad is a total sports freak, so we were no stranger to all kinds of sports. I remember watching football as a kid thinking there was only 10 minutes left…. Ugh, longest 10 minutes EVER. For those of you who know me well, you know that I am all about tennis at the moment. I play as much as I can, win, lose, or draw and love it! Sports is in my blood.
So, when Kate was about four years old and could almost bleed “pink”, I accepted that she just may not be that into sports and I better start learning how to play barbies. There are still more dolls in my house than I remember seeing my first 15 years of life. Fast forward five years… we have tried T-ball, cheer, tumbling, piano etc. and she would be into it but fizzle out after the first couple practices. My rule has always been, if you start – you finish, no quitting mid-season which has lead to many discussions about having to follow through.
So when she told me she wanted to play soccer I was good with it but didn’t know how it would go. Her brother plays too and he has been a natural at pretty much anything that has to do with a ball since birth. Although his stint in T-Ball is good for comedy skits now days for the slowest base “saunterer” in the world. Kate also said she didn’t want to play the “no score” league like Garrett did when he started; she wanted to jump right in the real deal. So I signed her up for U10 at NASA for her first real organized sport experience. We chose NASA for Garrett because he really needed the extra competition at age 7 so I was a little concerned for her. Thankfully we have a great team but she is the only one who hasn’t played before.
Last week was the first game and she rocked it! She had three break aways and a nice assist to a teammate for a goal. Her team won big, 14-4. As I watched I could see her figuring things out and it was great! I was THAT crazy mom. My throat hurt from cheering. I could not be more proud of how hard she played her first game out! That is until this week…game two. This week they played a much harder team and I saw her work even harder. She had five goal attempts and was in the mix whenever she could be. She went from waiting for the ball to see what was going happen to calling for it! You could almost see the light go on as she played on and her confidence grew. At one point, I just got all choked up for her accomplishment. I don’t know that I had ever had that particular emotion before.
You know, I don’t care if she ever plays more than one season of soccer. For the record, I never learned how to do the Barbie thing either! And there are times when being a single mom just gets all over me and I am ridiculously frustrated. I think “how in the world am I going to be able to raise these kids”. Then you have the chance to be your child’s biggest cheerleader. It is a beautiful thing to watch your child grow and develop in front of your eyes! In that moment, you realize what a big deal it is to be a parent. It is in the small moments when you get a glimpse into the person they are becoming and those times of frustration melt away and you keep on…